Another season another update...
Easter Sunday (April 8)
If the picture above remains very large on your screen when you see this, there are two reasons: one is that I don't know how to make it smaller and the second is that this house project has been a big one (project, not house). Since talking to some of you, we have been actively remodeling this old cottege. Some floors and walls have gone and been repositioned/rebuilt, stone has been blasted (cleaned), surfaces tiled, cabinets and shelves built, plumbing and electrical updated, heating and air replaced....with painting and wood floor restoration up next. Our contractor, John, says we could be in the house by May. Laura gets several calls a day from strange men (workers) and I'm not one bit jealous. I am so proud of how she has responsibly managed this project for us. As spring hit, the trees have canopied the yards. Birds are everywhere. Having been in the same neighborhood for 25 years, this has been and will be a big step for us. Everyone I know keeps telling me, "David, you'll never get all your books in that little house" (1500 sq feet). We're looking forward to a smaller more functional space with less emphasis and attention to "stuff". We have many more stories about this process/philosophical shift.... if you come see us then we'll talk about it some more....come on over and sit on the porch!
Laura continues to be a walking, breathing demonstration of God's grace. Her PET and CT scans were all clear two weeks ago! We know that we live in a fallen world and that we are all living by God's goodness. All of us are "terminal" and that extra days are just the icing on the cake. None of us deserve to "do well...be healthy...enjoy wealth...". All of it is grace and it comes at us one day at a time. An earthly tomorrow doesn't exist, simply a figment of your imagination. I woke up the other morning thanking God for all the blessings in my life (some have been easy and others difficult). I couldn't stop listing. There is no end to what He has done for us. We must all realize this today (Easter) more than any other day. He is risen indeed! Keep praising Him for Laura's health and please pray for more days and years of service for her. Thankyou.
All our children are together today. Ben has gone to Washington for a few months to do some remodeling in Aaron and Dana's old farmhouse (same things we are doing). Their house is one year younger than ours, build in 1925. Claire flew out for her Spring Break so they were able to attend Easter services together today. Aaron and Dana had a great kick off market in Poulsbo yesterday with lots of greens from their greenhouse. Ben will return to Little Rock soon, to work with interior craftsman carpentry. Claire is still working at the Easter Seals school for Autistic children in Chicago and hopes to start OT school soon. Clarie and Rich are on track for an October 6 wedding in Chicago. We like Rich, but he worries us with his committment to "living in Chicago" for the rest of his life. Chicago's great but we would love to see them closer. However, we just want them happily walking together with the Lord wherever they live. We feel God's grace on our lives also with these wonderful young people who are trying to make a difference in the world.
Life is moving along in lots of other ways too....we've been to Heber Springs with old college friends for an annual weekend reunion....a getaway in Eureka for the 2 of us....just back from New Orleans for a 5 day medical meeting (that I DID attend everyday)...now part of a mentoring program with a young couple here in Fayetteville, also getting married in October....attended a 7 hour webcast by David Platt on Suffering and the Cross (that was a 7 hour sermon with us pretty much sitting in one chari the whole time, but worth every minute)....living in community with folks with cancer all around, folks with little kids, folks in missions, all of us holding hands, hanging on to God's promises together....enduring some tough things with my career, fervently praying to shine brightly for Him through it all....living a one day at a time, thanking God constantly kind of life. We are a mess some of the time, do pretty good some of the time and occasionally do quite well some of the time.....it's called life. We love each other and are getting real joy with this privilege of experiencing all of this together. God is truly good.
We're still here, both of us. We are looking forward to each day being full of His grace and encouraging you to do the same. Remember His goodness is always there but His goodness if often not very easy. You've just got to lean in on him harder on those days....
Love,
David and Laura
IT STANDS TO REASON, DOESN'T IT, THAT IF THE ALIVE-AND-PRESENT GOD WHO RAISED JESUS FROM THE DEAD MOVES INTO YOUR LIFE, HE'LL DO THE SAME THING IN YOU THAT HE DID IN JESUS, BRINGING YOU ALIVE TO HIMSELF? WHEN GOD LIVES AND BREATHS IN YOU (AND HE DOES, AS SURELY AS HE DID IN JESUS), YOU ARE DELIVERED FROM THAT DEAD LIFE. WITH HIS SPIRIT LIVING IN YOU, YOUR BODY WILL BE AS ALIVE AS CHRIST'S! Rom 8:11
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Easter Sunday (April 8)
If the picture above remains very large on your screen when you see this, there are two reasons: one is that I don't know how to make it smaller and the second is that this house project has been a big one (project, not house). Since talking to some of you, we have been actively remodeling this old cottege. Some floors and walls have gone and been repositioned/rebuilt, stone has been blasted (cleaned), surfaces tiled, cabinets and shelves built, plumbing and electrical updated, heating and air replaced....with painting and wood floor restoration up next. Our contractor, John, says we could be in the house by May. Laura gets several calls a day from strange men (workers) and I'm not one bit jealous. I am so proud of how she has responsibly managed this project for us. As spring hit, the trees have canopied the yards. Birds are everywhere. Having been in the same neighborhood for 25 years, this has been and will be a big step for us. Everyone I know keeps telling me, "David, you'll never get all your books in that little house" (1500 sq feet). We're looking forward to a smaller more functional space with less emphasis and attention to "stuff". We have many more stories about this process/philosophical shift.... if you come see us then we'll talk about it some more....come on over and sit on the porch!
Laura continues to be a walking, breathing demonstration of God's grace. Her PET and CT scans were all clear two weeks ago! We know that we live in a fallen world and that we are all living by God's goodness. All of us are "terminal" and that extra days are just the icing on the cake. None of us deserve to "do well...be healthy...enjoy wealth...". All of it is grace and it comes at us one day at a time. An earthly tomorrow doesn't exist, simply a figment of your imagination. I woke up the other morning thanking God for all the blessings in my life (some have been easy and others difficult). I couldn't stop listing. There is no end to what He has done for us. We must all realize this today (Easter) more than any other day. He is risen indeed! Keep praising Him for Laura's health and please pray for more days and years of service for her. Thankyou.
All our children are together today. Ben has gone to Washington for a few months to do some remodeling in Aaron and Dana's old farmhouse (same things we are doing). Their house is one year younger than ours, build in 1925. Claire flew out for her Spring Break so they were able to attend Easter services together today. Aaron and Dana had a great kick off market in Poulsbo yesterday with lots of greens from their greenhouse. Ben will return to Little Rock soon, to work with interior craftsman carpentry. Claire is still working at the Easter Seals school for Autistic children in Chicago and hopes to start OT school soon. Clarie and Rich are on track for an October 6 wedding in Chicago. We like Rich, but he worries us with his committment to "living in Chicago" for the rest of his life. Chicago's great but we would love to see them closer. However, we just want them happily walking together with the Lord wherever they live. We feel God's grace on our lives also with these wonderful young people who are trying to make a difference in the world.
Life is moving along in lots of other ways too....we've been to Heber Springs with old college friends for an annual weekend reunion....a getaway in Eureka for the 2 of us....just back from New Orleans for a 5 day medical meeting (that I DID attend everyday)...now part of a mentoring program with a young couple here in Fayetteville, also getting married in October....attended a 7 hour webcast by David Platt on Suffering and the Cross (that was a 7 hour sermon with us pretty much sitting in one chari the whole time, but worth every minute)....living in community with folks with cancer all around, folks with little kids, folks in missions, all of us holding hands, hanging on to God's promises together....enduring some tough things with my career, fervently praying to shine brightly for Him through it all....living a one day at a time, thanking God constantly kind of life. We are a mess some of the time, do pretty good some of the time and occasionally do quite well some of the time.....it's called life. We love each other and are getting real joy with this privilege of experiencing all of this together. God is truly good.
We're still here, both of us. We are looking forward to each day being full of His grace and encouraging you to do the same. Remember His goodness is always there but His goodness if often not very easy. You've just got to lean in on him harder on those days....
Love,
David and Laura
IT STANDS TO REASON, DOESN'T IT, THAT IF THE ALIVE-AND-PRESENT GOD WHO RAISED JESUS FROM THE DEAD MOVES INTO YOUR LIFE, HE'LL DO THE SAME THING IN YOU THAT HE DID IN JESUS, BRINGING YOU ALIVE TO HIMSELF? WHEN GOD LIVES AND BREATHS IN YOU (AND HE DOES, AS SURELY AS HE DID IN JESUS), YOU ARE DELIVERED FROM THAT DEAD LIFE. WITH HIS SPIRIT LIVING IN YOU, YOUR BODY WILL BE AS ALIVE AS CHRIST'S! Rom 8:11
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A long overdue update...
Thursday (Feb 2)
I would like to say that the last two months have been "interesting" without using the tired old adjectives like stressful, exhausting, disorienting, awesome, amazing, and incredible. The very best part of this update is that Laura continues to do well! She is energetically managing most the below mentioned projects with big smiles. She is doing and looking good.
We closed on the sold and bought houses January 11. The moving process lasted about six weeks, first garage and closets then cabinets and bookshelves, then attic and underbed spaces, ending with kitchen. Early on it was Laura and I alone at the table or in the floor sifting through thirty years of letters, cards and such. As we drew closer to launch the moving crew grew from first of all the kids then extended family then more and more friends We couldn't done this without all the help. Since Ben doesn't really have a house of his own, he had to box his possessions and get them into grandparent's attic and garage. Aaron and Claire spent days working through the last of their home stuff. Aaron and Dana stepped up as foremans on the whole project, getting books, artwork and hundreds of other things boxed and ready in stages. I pulled about 30% of my books onto the foor and we had folks come by for days, taking what they wanted. 80% of the DVDs and lots of CDs found new homes as well. The Saturday before the big day, Laura sold or gave away about 40% of our furniture. I think you're getting the idea, this experience was unique. The hundred year old piano went to sweet family with three little kids (2 boys and a girl). Ironically, we are renting the house that our buyers moved out of (the same day) so the moving was this not-so-delicate dance between trucks and trailers (contents of rooms would exhange places as the two moving. crews passed each other in yards and doors and halls). As you may remember the family that bought our house is my new partner and again ironically has a wonderful wife, two little girls with a boy on the way in a month. These kids are exactly the ages of our children when we moved into this neighborhood 25 years ago. There have been some crying sessions but definately more laughing sessions. It's like we've had a rich blessing of watching (and feeling) our married life pass before us in a huge strange power point presentation. A word to any of you that want to stay in your "big old house forever"....someone (your children or worse yet, strangers) will have to go through all of your junk someday and most of it will deservedly be given or thrown away. If you have the energy, find a way to begin the process now, it's good. We like our 2200 sq ft rent house and hope to be moving into our remodeled 1500 sq ft home in May.
Some quick words about the new home. We hired an experienced remodeler of old homes as our general contractor. Demolition started this last week and certain walls and floors are gone! What started as a facelift has necessarily become a moderately major remodel with Laura's operative word, "functionality". As we shared, this little 1924 place is 2 houses up from Wilson Park (our city's oldest downtown park) and 3 blocks from our city bike trail system. We are thankful for God's grace in all of these things.
I have saved the most momentous, biggest, and coolest news for almost last. Claire is engaged! Rich Koning had called us before they got here for Christmas, asking that we take a hike where he would lead her away and ask her to marry him, then return to us, to celebrate! He had already talked to me about their tentative plans last September and we have known of their love for each other. She got a ring and it didn't take long for she and her Mom and Dana to start looking for dresses. I must say the picture of Claire in that dress in the midst of all the other transitions in our lives was emotional. She is studying for the GRE and plans OT school in the next couple of years. Rich is working two jobs and thoughtfully considering what the best educational path should be for him right now. They are planning the wedding for October 6 in Chicago. We love both of these kids and feel so honored to be encouragers in their life together. Ben is finishing a big carpentry project in Little Rock this week then is driving to Washington (picking up a friend in Colorado) to help Aaron and Dana with some of their interior house work there on the farm. Aaron and Dana are of course working on their old house but also getting seeds and such ready for spring planting. Just like Ben eats and sleeps craftsman woodwork, these two eat and sleep farming, always scheming a new crop or a better way to farm.
Thanks for praying. We promise to re-learn how to put some pictures on here for the next entry, so hang in with us! We are well, thank God.
love,
David (and Laura)
I PRAY THAT OUT OF HIS GLORIOUS RICHES HE MAY STRENGTHEN YOU WITH POWER THROUGH HIS SPIRIT IN YOUR INNER BEING. Eph 3:16
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Thursday (Feb 2)
I would like to say that the last two months have been "interesting" without using the tired old adjectives like stressful, exhausting, disorienting, awesome, amazing, and incredible. The very best part of this update is that Laura continues to do well! She is energetically managing most the below mentioned projects with big smiles. She is doing and looking good.
We closed on the sold and bought houses January 11. The moving process lasted about six weeks, first garage and closets then cabinets and bookshelves, then attic and underbed spaces, ending with kitchen. Early on it was Laura and I alone at the table or in the floor sifting through thirty years of letters, cards and such. As we drew closer to launch the moving crew grew from first of all the kids then extended family then more and more friends We couldn't done this without all the help. Since Ben doesn't really have a house of his own, he had to box his possessions and get them into grandparent's attic and garage. Aaron and Claire spent days working through the last of their home stuff. Aaron and Dana stepped up as foremans on the whole project, getting books, artwork and hundreds of other things boxed and ready in stages. I pulled about 30% of my books onto the foor and we had folks come by for days, taking what they wanted. 80% of the DVDs and lots of CDs found new homes as well. The Saturday before the big day, Laura sold or gave away about 40% of our furniture. I think you're getting the idea, this experience was unique. The hundred year old piano went to sweet family with three little kids (2 boys and a girl). Ironically, we are renting the house that our buyers moved out of (the same day) so the moving was this not-so-delicate dance between trucks and trailers (contents of rooms would exhange places as the two moving. crews passed each other in yards and doors and halls). As you may remember the family that bought our house is my new partner and again ironically has a wonderful wife, two little girls with a boy on the way in a month. These kids are exactly the ages of our children when we moved into this neighborhood 25 years ago. There have been some crying sessions but definately more laughing sessions. It's like we've had a rich blessing of watching (and feeling) our married life pass before us in a huge strange power point presentation. A word to any of you that want to stay in your "big old house forever"....someone (your children or worse yet, strangers) will have to go through all of your junk someday and most of it will deservedly be given or thrown away. If you have the energy, find a way to begin the process now, it's good. We like our 2200 sq ft rent house and hope to be moving into our remodeled 1500 sq ft home in May.
Some quick words about the new home. We hired an experienced remodeler of old homes as our general contractor. Demolition started this last week and certain walls and floors are gone! What started as a facelift has necessarily become a moderately major remodel with Laura's operative word, "functionality". As we shared, this little 1924 place is 2 houses up from Wilson Park (our city's oldest downtown park) and 3 blocks from our city bike trail system. We are thankful for God's grace in all of these things.
I have saved the most momentous, biggest, and coolest news for almost last. Claire is engaged! Rich Koning had called us before they got here for Christmas, asking that we take a hike where he would lead her away and ask her to marry him, then return to us, to celebrate! He had already talked to me about their tentative plans last September and we have known of their love for each other. She got a ring and it didn't take long for she and her Mom and Dana to start looking for dresses. I must say the picture of Claire in that dress in the midst of all the other transitions in our lives was emotional. She is studying for the GRE and plans OT school in the next couple of years. Rich is working two jobs and thoughtfully considering what the best educational path should be for him right now. They are planning the wedding for October 6 in Chicago. We love both of these kids and feel so honored to be encouragers in their life together. Ben is finishing a big carpentry project in Little Rock this week then is driving to Washington (picking up a friend in Colorado) to help Aaron and Dana with some of their interior house work there on the farm. Aaron and Dana are of course working on their old house but also getting seeds and such ready for spring planting. Just like Ben eats and sleeps craftsman woodwork, these two eat and sleep farming, always scheming a new crop or a better way to farm.
Thanks for praying. We promise to re-learn how to put some pictures on here for the next entry, so hang in with us! We are well, thank God.
love,
David (and Laura)
I PRAY THAT OUT OF HIS GLORIOUS RICHES HE MAY STRENGTHEN YOU WITH POWER THROUGH HIS SPIRIT IN YOUR INNER BEING. Eph 3:16
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the very latest...
Wednesday (Dec. 21)
WOW, A NEW ENTRY! We've thought about writing a note about ten times but with so much happening thought we'd wait to have more definative information. Our "wait" has turned into weeks and weeks and now we have a lot to share.
First of all Laura is doing very well. She looks good and feels good. She finished her twelve weeks of immune therapy
without a hitch. There's been some fatigue, but it's been hard to know if that is from the medication with all the other things going on in our lives. The very best news is a clear PET scan yesterday! This is now her 2nd negative tumor scan since her surgery in June. In our one-day-at-a-time life yesterday was a very big day, a very big day and very big praise. We feel like this is one huge Christmas present from God! There are no other therapies planned at this point and she will continue to get these PET scans every three months for the next year or so.
More news. For the last year we've felt like we needed to downsize our home. The kids are only home a few times a year and we don't need all of this space most of the time. When one of my new partners asked if we were interested in selling (the house was NOT listed).... we said yes. It just seemed so easy so we tried the same thing. With not much on the market during the holidays our realtor tracked down several places that had been listed in recent years but presently withdrawn. We liked a small home on his list near Wilson Park (downtown Fayetteville) so he contacted the owners and within a week they accepted our offer. We will be closing January 11, Lord willing, moving from 3650 to 1435 sq ft. Half our furniture, books and a lot of other stuff will have to go! Our new home, a craftsman cottage, was built in 1924 and seems just right for us so close to the park, the bike trail, Dickson area and the Fayetteville Farmer's Market. We will be moving into a rent house for 2-3 months while we are having some kitchen and bathroom remodeling done. All is set and ready to go, except for finding the remodeler. We know this all sounds crazy with all that is happening in our life, but it just feels so right.
Claire and Rich (the very serious boyfriend) drove in tonight from Chicago. Aaron and Dana and Tuck the dog left their Washington farm last Saturday and have been driving steadily this way, hopefully arriving around midnight tonight. Ben plans to make it here tomorrow evening from Little Rock. Most of the kids will be here for a week or more with hikes, meals, family reunions, parties, and more planned. This will be our last Christmas together in this old house. We have tickets next Wednesday for all of us to Crystal Bridges Museum of American Art here in Bentonville. If any of you out of towners come see us, we WILL take you there too...awesome.
Believe it or not, there are actually a few more big things happening around here, but I think this is all I need to hit you with right now. Laura's good progress, leaving our home of 20 years (same neighborhood 25 years), and getting the kids home for the holidays are in the forefront of our hearts and minds tonight. God is teaching us peace, again, by taking life on one-day-at-a-time. All of life's tough stuff (tears!) CAN be handled with His help, but only in one day doses. Stay away from reruns of the past and previews of the future as neither actually exist. He daily provides for His people, always has and always will , even during bad times. Therein lies the peace, a day to day knowledge of His goodness and reliability of His promises. Please keep praying for us as we walk into possibly more adventuresome times. We are so humbled and encouraged by these prayers. God is using you, thank you.
love,
David and Laura
REJOICE IN THE LORD ALWAYS. I WILL SAY IT AGAIN: REJOICE! LET YOUR GENTLENESS BE EVIDENT TO ALL. THE LORD IS NEAR. DO NOT BE ANXIOUS ABOUT ANYTHING, BUT IN EVERY SITUATION, BY PRAYER AND PETITION, WITH THANKSGIVING, PRESENT YOUR REQUESTS TO GOD. AND THE PEACE OF GOD, WHICH TRANSCENDS ALL UNDERSTANDING, WILL GUARD YOUR HEARTS AND MINDS IN CHRIST JESUS. Phil 4:4-7
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the latest...
Wednesday (Nov. 9th)
This is the biggest gap in our blog so far, sorry... . We made it home from Florida in one big day, something we haven't done for a long time, actually stopping by to see Ben (LR) and give him our leftover food from the trip. Florida was a nice getaway for Laura especially. It's nice to be away with extended family, but just the two of us is extra nice (sorry kids). Some of you may know that we have been toying with the idea of selling the house. We've loved this place for 20 years, a super spot for kid raising, awesome neighborhood and pretty close to what we need. It just seems like a lot of empty space with just the 2 of us, so we are on the verge of listing while we wait on a some friends to decide if they want it for sale by owner. We are going through at least one closet per week. In December I will tackle the books (25 bookcases of them). We are feeling the need to let a lot of stuff go, simplify. It's taking the resolve of both of us but so far so good. Our goal is to downsize to something possible closer to downtown, near the market and trails. More later on that.
We made a quick trip to see Claire last weekend and still pretty whipped from keeping up with she and Rich all over the city. We made good use of our 3 day L Pass. All is well there, still romance in the air. More later on that.
Laura is now between her 3rd and 4th treatments and is doing super. Some days she feels a little achy but can't be sure if it's a side effect. If it is, it's not very bad. Her biggest complaint is her "hot flashes" so I'd say she's pretty normal these days. Dr. Bradford's visit yesterday went well. I'm just so proud of her. We do feel the peace of the day everyday as long as we are not dragging the future up over us. We are committed to plans that involve the future (holidays, house selling, PET Scans), but only so far as decisions that are absolutely required THAT day. Again, we recommend that you also try living that way; before you know it you'll start living the good life, full of joy, rich with peace. By the way, this is not a form of denial or putting on "rose colored glasses". Some days stink (some are downright rotten), but just like every other day, it's only 24 hours then a new day starts. So far God has given us all the grace we have needed for each day and we are convinced that He will provide a future grace for all our future days. Accessing this everyday grace requires getting in the Word, spending minutes to hours in prayer, and surrounding yourself with Spirit filled folks. I would even throw in a lifestyle of healthy eating and exercise as conduits of God's daily grace. We really believe this and you are welcome to hold us accountable to it.
Thank you again for your regular prayers. We want to especially thank the kids who pray for Laura. We know there are several dozen of these superstars in the Kingdom who mention her regularly to the Father. Glorious jewels in all of your crowns, can't wait to see them.
love,
David and Laura
TEACH ME, O LORD TO FOLLOW EVERY ONE OF YOUR PRINCIPLES. GIVE ME UNDERSTANDING AND I WILL OBEY YOUR LAW... MAKE ME WALK ALONG THE PATH OF YOUR COMMANDS FOR THAT IS WHERE HAPPINESS IS FOUND. PSALM 119:33-35
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Wed (Oct 12)
We are nestled a few 100 feet from a northwest florida beach right now. It's a bit after 7am and Laura is still sleeping as the sun is heroically trying to rise behind and around the friendly clouds we've grown to love over the last few days. Our arrival to Rosemary Beach (west of Panama City Beach) on Saturday was sunny and warm. However, Sunday till now has been a riotous display of colors of sky and water... all shades of blue, green, grey with a rainbow punctuation later yesterday afternoon. There's not been much rain, just enough to keep the crowds off our beach and we like it that way. We may get a day or two of real sunshine before weeks end and that will be fine too. We take our weather one day at a time too.
Those of you who know us well, know we love to read, not just Laura and I, the kids too. In fact, our family is downright nerdy. The kids tend to be even more eclectic and studious with their choices. Reading has given us shared experiences that bond us. If any conversation lags, someone will usually throw out an idea or scene from Wendell Berry, Barbara Kingsolver, Berndt Heinrich, Henri Nouwen... . Dana and I have just finished reading Plague Dogs by Richard Adams (author of Watership Down), she in Seattle, me in Arkansas. My reading has been richer, knowing that she was there with me. Aaron and Ben and I have been racing through Frank Herbert's Dune series (Ben is done, Aaron is 1 book from finishing the 6 and I am a book behind him). I think Claire and Rich are starting Dune too. Amazing books. Most of the family has read David James Duncan's The Brothers K in the last few years. Well, Laura has picked it up as a beach read. It's a rich saga of a family, parents and kids like us. I've relished watching her smile and laugh and cry through her book this week. I'm reading Cutting For Stone, a novel of Ethiopia, by Abraham Verghese. All I can say is READ IT. It's well written, a beautiful novel concerning an important people and place.
Oh, we've been eating seafood. Me more than Laura. When in Rome, right. I love local flavor, especially fresh.
Laura has just awakened and emerged. She has first given me my morning kiss and has now beelined to turn on her coffee. I'm just happy I rate above the coffee. She feels well, thanks to God and your good prayers. In case you've been worried about sunburns, we don't plan on any. We ARE the most sunscreened, clothed, umbrella-ed, and sunglassed couple on the beach. Yes, you know the look, sorry kids. We beach responsibly.
love,
David and Laura
THE ANGEL OF THE LORD ENCAMPS AROUND THOSE WHO FEAR HIM, AND HE DELIVERS THEM. Ps 34:7
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Sunday (Oct 2)
We want our blog to give you a sense of our typical routines so I'll just tell you, we are sitting here shelling purple hull peas. Laura keeps finding them at the farmer's market and as long as the vines are still producing, we'll keep buying, shelling and putting them in the freezer. These are just about our favorite. We will hate to see our summer crops go away soon, but Lord willing they'll be back next year. We do shop at a winter market here but it's just not the same as the bright summer veggies. We've been biking quite a bit this week during all this cooler sunny weather. Yesterday, Laura and I biked on Scull Creek trail down to Dickson Street to view the spectacle of Bikes, Blues, and BarBQue (100,000 or so motorcycles, looked liked most Harleys). We didn't fit in too well on our bicycles so we didn't stay long. Today, a young couple, Josh and Jenna Daniels prepared a beautiful lunch for us at their apartment near campus. It's been a great weekend.
Those of you who know me well, know that I love to read and I love to travel (actually we both do). I have a habit of over-planning our trips, usually months in advance. Well, we have the last week of vacation this year coming up next weekend and we have had no plans brewing until today. It is a purposeful attempt to be spontaneous. So far, so good. We are willing to drive up to 10-14 hours if the right idea hits us OR we might just stay around here if it doesn't. One criteria for this trip has been to get some genuine rest, quiet time. Another goal is to avoid extreme exertion. This has been the negative point about a mountain trip....the urge to climb one (I can't help myself usually when faced with the thing). A third idea for this trip is to keep it simple, eliminating most major city possiblities. Even though we like mountains and cities, beaches and secluded wildernesses are moving up our list. The weekend fast approaches so we will be forced to move one direction or another soon. A report from some yet undetermined location will hit the blog very soon, be watching.
Here's the latest with Laura (which is really why your here right now): her next infusion is Tuesday (Oct 4) around midday. She has felt great! The doc has told us that side effects are more typical after the second treatment, so keep praying please. She has had a spider bite on her leg this week which alarmed us briefly, much improved now. I am just so very proud of her attitude. When you step up to the plate in the big game, folks are watching. She has reached up to God and out to others with all her strength. She is a shining star in the universe and will continue to shine, I'm convinced of it. God has, is, and will see her through any trouble this world gives her.
We are signing off now, getting late (10pm) and we've got to get to bed. May the Lord bless and keep each one of you.
love,
David and Laura
REMEMBER YOUR PROMISE TO ME, FOR IT IS MY ONLY HOPE. YOUR PROMISE REVIVES ME; COMFORTS ME IN ALL MY TROUBLES. Ps 119:49-50
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Sun (Sept 18)
We left for Washington in summer (hot) and returned to autumn (cool). Ironically our temperatures here in Arkansas have been about like we had on the Olymptic Penninsula. You know you are getting old when you notice and talk about weather so much (remember you grandparents?). The week and weekend have been great. Laura had her first treatment on Tuesday at Highlands Oncology and has felt super. We think it was such a good idea to give the surgery plenty of time then make the trip out west before starting the infusions. Of course a NEGATIVE PET scan (tumor scan) to start things off was awesome, such good news. Laura will get 3 more infusions at 3 week intervals then get another PET scan 1 month later and then PETs every 3 months for the next year or so. She may have some side effects or she may not. About 30-40% of folks experience skin or gi problems and often not until the 4th or 5th week. We are being conditioned to enjoy any good day and today is a good day!
Our good friend Valerie Beyrouty from Fort Collins, Colorado arrived on Thursday for a week. She and her husband, Craig, lived in Fayetteville for a long time and have 3 children pretty much the exact ages of our 3. All our kids were buddies growing up and we miss them al lot. I've been hearing a lot of laugter from these two women, whether riding bikes or cleaning closets. New friends are special for many reasons, but old friends are real treasures, especially ones that make us laugh.
Laura and I are starting a new weekly class tomorrow night put on by a local counciling group (The Joshua Center). There will be a series of units through the year (grief, crisis, sexuality, and this first section about missions). We do interact with so many, especially young folks and want a little more information in our tool box. We also want to be able to use all of these new developments ("adventures") as God gives us opportunity.
Work is good, espcially now that I am off the call schedule (since June). We've done some remodeling in the clinic and I have a new office cubicle. It's a nicer quieter spot with a little window which I appreciate. I'll get through this week and we will be traveling to Nashville, TN over the weekend for Rachel McAlister's wedding. This is the daughter of Mitch and Robin who have recently moved from Fayetteville to Memphis. In October I have another week, shortly after Laura's next treatment. We are not sure what we will do that week, but if Laura feels good we may drive away for a few days with some good books. There's a big conference coming up in March that I may attend and we are talking about making that trip together. Even though we are living life one day at a time, we are starting to look ahead a bit more, both cautiously and faithfully.
Aaron and Dana have a new puppy, Border Collie. Tuck the farm dog. Ben is back in the garage this week working on his truck. He's either crafting wood or wrenching a motor most days. Claire had a little bike wreck this week so we've been trying to get a clear picture on whether "OK" means hurt or just a little sore. I plan on calling her boyfriend Rich soon for a more objective opinion on how she's doing. Our most intense prayers are for our children and if you have children, particularly adult children, you understand! They are wonderful. If you have any extra prayer time, remember Claire with some bruised knees .
We continue to recieve responses to this blog that bless our souls. Reconnection with old and distant friends as well as with folks around here is often the best part of our days. Thank you for finding us here, for sharing our life in these words, and praying hard for Laura. God is good and you are part of His goodness in our lives.
Love,
David and Laura
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We left for Washington in summer (hot) and returned to autumn (cool). Ironically our temperatures here in Arkansas have been about like we had on the Olymptic Penninsula. You know you are getting old when you notice and talk about weather so much (remember you grandparents?). The week and weekend have been great. Laura had her first treatment on Tuesday at Highlands Oncology and has felt super. We think it was such a good idea to give the surgery plenty of time then make the trip out west before starting the infusions. Of course a NEGATIVE PET scan (tumor scan) to start things off was awesome, such good news. Laura will get 3 more infusions at 3 week intervals then get another PET scan 1 month later and then PETs every 3 months for the next year or so. She may have some side effects or she may not. About 30-40% of folks experience skin or gi problems and often not until the 4th or 5th week. We are being conditioned to enjoy any good day and today is a good day!
Our good friend Valerie Beyrouty from Fort Collins, Colorado arrived on Thursday for a week. She and her husband, Craig, lived in Fayetteville for a long time and have 3 children pretty much the exact ages of our 3. All our kids were buddies growing up and we miss them al lot. I've been hearing a lot of laugter from these two women, whether riding bikes or cleaning closets. New friends are special for many reasons, but old friends are real treasures, especially ones that make us laugh.
Laura and I are starting a new weekly class tomorrow night put on by a local counciling group (The Joshua Center). There will be a series of units through the year (grief, crisis, sexuality, and this first section about missions). We do interact with so many, especially young folks and want a little more information in our tool box. We also want to be able to use all of these new developments ("adventures") as God gives us opportunity.
Work is good, espcially now that I am off the call schedule (since June). We've done some remodeling in the clinic and I have a new office cubicle. It's a nicer quieter spot with a little window which I appreciate. I'll get through this week and we will be traveling to Nashville, TN over the weekend for Rachel McAlister's wedding. This is the daughter of Mitch and Robin who have recently moved from Fayetteville to Memphis. In October I have another week, shortly after Laura's next treatment. We are not sure what we will do that week, but if Laura feels good we may drive away for a few days with some good books. There's a big conference coming up in March that I may attend and we are talking about making that trip together. Even though we are living life one day at a time, we are starting to look ahead a bit more, both cautiously and faithfully.
Aaron and Dana have a new puppy, Border Collie. Tuck the farm dog. Ben is back in the garage this week working on his truck. He's either crafting wood or wrenching a motor most days. Claire had a little bike wreck this week so we've been trying to get a clear picture on whether "OK" means hurt or just a little sore. I plan on calling her boyfriend Rich soon for a more objective opinion on how she's doing. Our most intense prayers are for our children and if you have children, particularly adult children, you understand! They are wonderful. If you have any extra prayer time, remember Claire with some bruised knees .
We continue to recieve responses to this blog that bless our souls. Reconnection with old and distant friends as well as with folks around here is often the best part of our days. Thank you for finding us here, for sharing our life in these words, and praying hard for Laura. God is good and you are part of His goodness in our lives.
Love,
David and Laura
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9/8 Thursday
Dr. Harris called David and said the scans were normal and no evidence of diesease!!! Rejoicing with such a quick response and results. Ready for treatment on Tuesday. Keep praying. Love, Laura
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9/7 Wednesday (we're sure now)
Greetings from Fayetteville! We arrived safely home around 10:30 last night after a wonderful 18 day trip to Washington. You know you've had a real vacation when you are much more relaxed in the airport coming home than you were going away (security waits, delays, connnections, weather...). The trip was great. I know Aaron and Dana are worn out from hosting us, but did such a great job with everyone. We are so very proud of what they are doing there and importantly had to spend time being part of their farm and market to really understand it. Now it's time to get down to business here. Of course, I'm back to work here in the clinic within the hour and Laura starts some tests tomorrow. In the morning she will get a CT with contrast of her head and body as well as the full body PET scan. As you may remember, the PET is where they found her lesions before so we know it's a good test for screening her. She will then see Dr. Bradford next Tuesday at 10:30 am to discuss the results and get started with her treatments (regardless of what the scans show). Please be praying for her to tolerate the tests tomorrow (has had an allergic reaction to the CT contrast and takes prednisone everytime prior to getting it again). Please be praying for it to be God's will that these next tests be negative (no new tumors). Please be praying for her to tolerate her treatments (risk of autoimmune reactions). We are thankful for healing. We are thankful for the time away together and with our precious children. Now we are thankful for a good medical plan and caregivers. We are thankful for your prayers and presence here with us. There is always more to be thankful for than we can ever remember. God is good and we believe this with all our hearts. Thank you.
David and Laura
YOU HAVE MADE KNOWN TO ME THE PATH OF LIFE; YOU WILL FILL ME WITH JOY IN YOUR PRESENCE, WITH ETERNAL PLEASURES AT YOUR RIGHT HAND. Ps 16:11
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9/1 Thursday (we think)
Greetings from Lopez Island (the 3rd largest of the San Juan Islands northwest of Seattle)! Two weeks ago tomorrow we set out for these windswept, sometimes sunny, sometime foggy, rocky patches of green. We spent the first week with our kids working together on Aaron and Dana's new farm, weeding, harvesting, milking goats, tending chickens and ducks. I'm not sure if we actually "helped" them, but it was certainly fun and educational to be part of something most of our forebearers did everyday. Being part of their Saturday market was thrilling as we watched them lovingly describe and sell their treasures from the land. Aaron has always wanted his siblings to see Lopez, so finished off their trip with 3 days over here, hiking, biking, eating, playing games and reading. If you know us well, you can imagine us all sitting together, reading our books together.....Jackson family fun. There's been some birdwatching (eagles, and ospreys, turkey, quail and more). We spotted otters along the shore and last night Laura and I watched a big male sea lion swimming and surfacing fast along beside us during our sunset beachwalk. The kids flew home on Tuesday (the 30th) and Aaron and Dana have been back farming again this week. Laura and I have been having some alone island time now for a few days. We ferried over to San Juan Island yesterday, hoping to see Orca from the western shore. We saw lots of other fun things, harbor seals and porpoises, but no whales. We know they are out there and want to go back there to spend more time watching. We are here another day then back for the weekend at the farm (Poulsbo, WA) before home on Tuesday. We are definately in the relaxation mode as our hikes have turned into strolls, meals can happen 2 or 4 times a day......we haven't worn watches for days. Laura is feeling great. She's been a bit sore in her chest with some of the uneven walking we've done, but overall is really strong. We thank God everyday for every day. We know He is able. We fear no evil, however know that each day will bring challenges that He is completely equipping us to manage with His help. We are sensing His power in His creation. We are feeling his love in His gift of family. When we can figure out better how to do pictures we will include some photos of our Puget Sound Adventure, but until that time, be assured that we are smiling.
Love from Lopez,
David and Laura
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8/14 Sunday
We've got the bags pulled out and are starting to make a packing list. I've got 4 days of clinic and Laura may can a few more pints of okra then Seattle here we come. Oh yeah, we're starting a stack of books to take in case we get some time out from the kid's garden. Actually our plans are to spend about a week at Aaron and Dana's farm in Poulsbo, WA....gathering all the kids to us little by little. Then we will spend about a week up on Lopez Island, 2 hours north in the San Juans. Laura rode a bike yesterday! So, we will hopefully do some biking in addition to hiking, birdwatching, and beachcombing while on the island. It's finally summer up there, sunny in the 70s. You can tell we are ready to go, right?
We drove up to Little Rock last Sunday, celebrating Ben's 26th birthday with him. He looked good, seems to be enjoying his carpentry work there. Claire was in Detroit last weekend for a friend's wedding. She's talking about OT school and may be looking around when she is with us in Seattle. We are looking forward to getting to know her boyfriend, Rich, better while up there.
Laura's feeling good and we're both feeling right about the vacation then treatment decision. We've spent a lot of time with friends lately and have been so encouraged by your notes that represent your love and prayers. God is teaching us that illogical peace is real. If you are looking for it, start by taking life one day at a time. Give God your tomorrows, next week, next month, next year. Live in the day, deal with today's challenges, one minute at a time, praying constantly. He will reliably, with compassion and strength, give you everything you need (manna) for that day's trouble. It sounds childlike (childish) and it is. Try it....pray that we have the faith to live it. Check with us in about 2 weeks for a report from Puget Sound.
Praying for you everyday.
David and Laura
"Perserverance must finish it's work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything." James 1:4
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8/1 Mon
As if the happenings in our life this summer were not enough, the weather has become a bit surreal. We are 100 degrees right now and expecting 106 tomorrow. Remember summers in the 80s and 90s when we hardly hit 90 degrees? We are still getting a few sunburned tomatoes out of our little garden, but the cucumbers are done. When outside our dog and cats keep looking at us, saying, "really?", it's hot. I'm trying to ride my bike to work about twice a week and, on a good note, 6:30 am is not too bad. Laura has opted for mostly indoor activities, attending her "Body Pump" class a few times (without doing the weights) and she has done a couple of modified yoga routines. We are coming and going pretty regularly now and this feels good. Laura volunteered at LifeSource last Thursday, really enjoyed seeing her co-workers and clients again. We had some young couples over last week for supper and we've had fun with drop in company over the weekend. At church Sunday, we were suprised by a dear friend, Kim Narramore Soule, from Kentucky who we hadn't seen for many years. We spent a few hours yesterday with she and her husband Jeff then Laura enjoyed lunch with Kim and some girlfriends today. Laura and I have made a couple of movies recently, Larry Crowne with Tom Hanks (pretty good) and Captain America (ok). I share all of this with you as indications that, despite major surgery and the heat wave, we are getting back to a routine around here.
Laura and I leave for Aaron and Dana's near Seattle 2 weeks from this next Friday (8/19), where we will spend 2 1/2 weeks with the kids. Claire will join us first then Rich (her boyfriend) and Ben will come next. Rich will head back to Chicago then Claire and Ben will leave. We will still have a week left after they leave us, with Aaron and Dana. This is the crazy way the Jacksons have to do a family gathering, eventually getting all of us together for a few days (the convergence) with lots of coming and going before and after. Laura and I hope to spend some time on Lopez Island in the San Juans for rest, reading, riding, and beautiful sunsets.
Her PET scan and CT scan are set up for Sept 8 and if the Lord wills, we should get IPILIMUMAB (Yervoy brand name) started Sept 13. Again, we thank you for your prayers, your faithfulness to our Lord, your friendship and love. If anyone asks how we are doing, please tell them "OK". We have no secret to peace other than the knowledge of the Lord's promise to care for us everyday, forever.
Peace,
David and Laura
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7/23 Sat.
David and I think the best plan is to start my treatments after our late August vacation with the family in Washington. This will give me the
chance to fully recover from surgery and even get back in shape some. I got the go-ahead Thursday from the surgeon's office to begin exercising and lifting light weights (no more than 5 pounds!). I had a wonderful massage this week and yesterday morning did a modified session of yoga. Progress! I'm praying and planning on enjoying this vacation time and "adventures" with the kids. We set up Ben's flights today, so everyone will be there.
We'll keep updating one or two times a week, but the next big thing will be our trip to the Northwest, returning in early September. My next PET and CT scans with subsequent initiation of the 12 weeks of therapy will be sometime during the first two weeks of September.
Please keep praying. We don't want to let our gaurd down, letting worry and doubt creep in as things are getting a little quieter. Thanks for being our prayer warriors, lifting up your arms as we battle.
Laura and David
"Be strong with the
Lord's mighty power. Put on all of God's armor so that you will be able to
stand firm...stand your ground, putting on the sturdy belt of truth and the body
armor of God's righteousness. For shoes put on the peace that comes from the
Good News, so that you will be fully prepared..." Eph 6:10-18
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7/20
Wed
Your prayers are being answered. We are feeling a peace beyond anything all of these discussions would indicate. Thank you. Our appointment
with Dr. Bradford was very informative and helpful. Laura's tumor markers and blood testing did not qualify her for the immune therapy from Dr. Weber in
Tampa, however there is another good option. IPILIMUMAB is a new FDA approved immune therapy agent that Dr. Bradford is suggesting. The IV course would be
four doses at three week intervals. In a nutshell, this agent promotes tumor fighting properties of specialized white blood cells and has been quite
successful with metastic melanoma in clinical trials. As well, it can turn the white blood cells against normal tissues (autoimmune disease), so there is the
possiblity of moderate to severe GI, liver, thyroid, and skin side effects. It is also extremely expensive. Our new prayer requests are that this agent would
be affordably available and that we make the right decision concerning when to start. We have bundled our summer vacation into a 2 1/2 week trip to see the
kids in Seattle in August and would really like to make this trip. Starting therapy soon would enable us to still make the trip, however she might get stuck
with some pretty bad side effects while there. Starting it after the trip means an obvious delay, however we would be home for any problems that might arise.
Dr. Bradford doesn't think a delay would be a problem. She is now on a new CT/PET scan schedule of every three months so we'll also be getting the next
ones in September. Even if something showed up with these scans, she would continue this therapy through all 12 weeks (all 4 doses).
We'll let you all know what and when very soon, but at least this let's you in on all that we know right now. Please keep praying! So many good things have been
happening. Folks are praying and that is good, lots of love coming our way and that is good, my brother and family are here and that is good, Laura and I are
closer than ever and tell each other every day how blessed we are to have each other to lean on. God's Word is intensely strong right now. Any burning
messages that you might have for us from your studies would be appreciated.
My we all have joy today, in all situations and
trials.
David and
Laura
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7/19 Tues.
Let the morning bring me word of Your
unfailing love, for I have put my trust in You. Show me the way I should go,
for You I lift up my soul. Psalm 143: 8
Thank you all so
much for checking in with us on the blog, for praying, offering encouraging words and acts of service. Sorry there has not been an update for a week as we
have been waiting for the test results that will determine treatment. We now have an appointment tomorrow afternoon, Wed. the 20th, with my oncologists to
discuss our options and move forward. Laura is not fully recovered yet, still having aches and pains in her back and around her ribs, but she is ready to get
started with this next phase. We are excited that David's brother's family will be here today to take their turn at lending a hand.
Please check again
tomorrow evening. Much love and gratitude, Laura and David
David and I think the best plan is to start my treatments after our late August vacation with the family in Washington. This will give me the
chance to fully recover from surgery and even get back in shape some. I got the go-ahead Thursday from the surgeon's office to begin exercising and lifting light weights (no more than 5 pounds!). I had a wonderful massage this week and yesterday morning did a modified session of yoga. Progress! I'm praying and planning on enjoying this vacation time and "adventures" with the kids. We set up Ben's flights today, so everyone will be there.
We'll keep updating one or two times a week, but the next big thing will be our trip to the Northwest, returning in early September. My next PET and CT scans with subsequent initiation of the 12 weeks of therapy will be sometime during the first two weeks of September.
Please keep praying. We don't want to let our gaurd down, letting worry and doubt creep in as things are getting a little quieter. Thanks for being our prayer warriors, lifting up your arms as we battle.
Laura and David
"Be strong with the
Lord's mighty power. Put on all of God's armor so that you will be able to
stand firm...stand your ground, putting on the sturdy belt of truth and the body
armor of God's righteousness. For shoes put on the peace that comes from the
Good News, so that you will be fully prepared..." Eph 6:10-18
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7/20
Wed
Your prayers are being answered. We are feeling a peace beyond anything all of these discussions would indicate. Thank you. Our appointment
with Dr. Bradford was very informative and helpful. Laura's tumor markers and blood testing did not qualify her for the immune therapy from Dr. Weber in
Tampa, however there is another good option. IPILIMUMAB is a new FDA approved immune therapy agent that Dr. Bradford is suggesting. The IV course would be
four doses at three week intervals. In a nutshell, this agent promotes tumor fighting properties of specialized white blood cells and has been quite
successful with metastic melanoma in clinical trials. As well, it can turn the white blood cells against normal tissues (autoimmune disease), so there is the
possiblity of moderate to severe GI, liver, thyroid, and skin side effects. It is also extremely expensive. Our new prayer requests are that this agent would
be affordably available and that we make the right decision concerning when to start. We have bundled our summer vacation into a 2 1/2 week trip to see the
kids in Seattle in August and would really like to make this trip. Starting therapy soon would enable us to still make the trip, however she might get stuck
with some pretty bad side effects while there. Starting it after the trip means an obvious delay, however we would be home for any problems that might arise.
Dr. Bradford doesn't think a delay would be a problem. She is now on a new CT/PET scan schedule of every three months so we'll also be getting the next
ones in September. Even if something showed up with these scans, she would continue this therapy through all 12 weeks (all 4 doses).
We'll let you all know what and when very soon, but at least this let's you in on all that we know right now. Please keep praying! So many good things have been
happening. Folks are praying and that is good, lots of love coming our way and that is good, my brother and family are here and that is good, Laura and I are
closer than ever and tell each other every day how blessed we are to have each other to lean on. God's Word is intensely strong right now. Any burning
messages that you might have for us from your studies would be appreciated.
My we all have joy today, in all situations and
trials.
David and
Laura
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7/19 Tues.
Let the morning bring me word of Your
unfailing love, for I have put my trust in You. Show me the way I should go,
for You I lift up my soul. Psalm 143: 8
Thank you all so
much for checking in with us on the blog, for praying, offering encouraging words and acts of service. Sorry there has not been an update for a week as we
have been waiting for the test results that will determine treatment. We now have an appointment tomorrow afternoon, Wed. the 20th, with my oncologists to
discuss our options and move forward. Laura is not fully recovered yet, still having aches and pains in her back and around her ribs, but she is ready to get
started with this next phase. We are excited that David's brother's family will be here today to take their turn at lending a hand.
Please check again
tomorrow evening. Much love and gratitude, Laura and David
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7/19 Tues.
Let the morning bring me word of Your unfailing love, for I have put my trust in You. Show me the way I should go, for You I lift up my soul. Psalm 143: 8
Thank you all so much for checking in with us on the blog, for praying, offering encouraging words and acts of service. Sorry there has not been an update for a week as we have been waiting for the test results that will determine treatment. We now have an appointment tomorrow afternoon, Wed. the 20th, with my oncologists to discuss our options and move forward. Laura is not fully recovered yet, still having aches and pains in her back and around her ribs, but she is ready to get started with this next phase. We are excited that David's brother's family will be here today to take their turn at lending a hand.
Please check again tomorrow evening. Much love and gratitude, Laura and David
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7/12 Tuesday
A word from Aaron here: Great moments from the past week in Fayetteville include: Ben and I taking the parents to a secret swimming hole on the Buffalo river, celebrating Dad's birthday with an incredible summer time southern feast with Grandparents Jackson, getting beat at Quoridor (an incredible board game) by Dad, Ben and friend Sid, seeing Mom(Laura) improve daily and begin to get out of the house more, experiencing the courage, toughness and joy of both of my parents, and remembering what true summer feels and sounds like after an unusually cool spring and early summer in the Pacific Northwest. Northwest Arkansas will always be home base for the Jackson clan and the bonds of community are strong in this place. We continue to learn that we are all stronger together than on our own. Support, encouragement and prayers from friends and family continue to carry us all through this adventurous time. Thank you. I head back to Washington this afternoon and look forward to the Jackson family convening at our farm in five weeks time. Much Love to all, aaron reid.
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Let the morning bring me word of Your unfailing love, for I have put my trust in You. Show me the way I should go, for You I lift up my soul. Psalm 143: 8
Thank you all so much for checking in with us on the blog, for praying, offering encouraging words and acts of service. Sorry there has not been an update for a week as we have been waiting for the test results that will determine treatment. We now have an appointment tomorrow afternoon, Wed. the 20th, with my oncologists to discuss our options and move forward. Laura is not fully recovered yet, still having aches and pains in her back and around her ribs, but she is ready to get started with this next phase. We are excited that David's brother's family will be here today to take their turn at lending a hand.
Please check again tomorrow evening. Much love and gratitude, Laura and David
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7/12 Tuesday
A word from Aaron here: Great moments from the past week in Fayetteville include: Ben and I taking the parents to a secret swimming hole on the Buffalo river, celebrating Dad's birthday with an incredible summer time southern feast with Grandparents Jackson, getting beat at Quoridor (an incredible board game) by Dad, Ben and friend Sid, seeing Mom(Laura) improve daily and begin to get out of the house more, experiencing the courage, toughness and joy of both of my parents, and remembering what true summer feels and sounds like after an unusually cool spring and early summer in the Pacific Northwest. Northwest Arkansas will always be home base for the Jackson clan and the bonds of community are strong in this place. We continue to learn that we are all stronger together than on our own. Support, encouragement and prayers from friends and family continue to carry us all through this adventurous time. Thank you. I head back to Washington this afternoon and look forward to the Jackson family convening at our farm in five weeks time. Much Love to all, aaron reid.
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7/7 Thurs
Laura's did make it to that wedding last Saturday, as well to church on Sunday, and to her doctor appointment on Tuesday. She's hoping to drive soon so watch out Fayetteville! Aaron's arrival on Tuesday night has really been a blessing. His sweet wife, Dana, is working hard on their farm in Washington so he can be here to help his mom. Aaron is such a positve person, just wonderful to have around. This week with Aaron is a gift from both of them.
We are still in a waiting mode on Laura's treatment plan, but know a bit more about the options. There are tests pending on the tumor tissue and her blood that may qualify her for a specific immunotherapy. If the tests results are qualifying then we will go to Moffitt Cancer Center in Tampa, Florida to meet with a melanoma specialist who would be directing her care. Our Dr. Bradford is pretty sure we would then be able to get these treatments here. However, if she did not qualify for this treatment then we would either begin a year long course of Interferon or "watch and wait" with quarterly PET/CT scans (next 9/2011). Certainly anything positive on future scans will dictate even more aggressive therapy. We should know something on her pending tests in the next two weeks so will know whether we are going to Tampa. Melanoma is more resposive to immunotherapies (vaccines, antibodies, white blood cell stimulators, interferon) as opposed to more conventional chemotherapy that you get with other cancers.
Please pray for Laura's continued healing, for her strength to drive and resume some of her routines. Please pray for the pending tests to qualify her for the Tampa treatment, as all feel that this is the most hopeful next step. Pray for us to thankfully continue living this wonderful life that God has given us "one day at a time". Just like Manna for the Israelites, He feeds us with all that we could possibly need for each single day's journey, always has and always will. Thank you for your attention to us, our story, our prayer requests. We know we don't deserve it, but like everything else good in our lives, count it as grace. His blessings and jewels on each of your heads,
David and Laura
There are many plans in a man's heart, nevertheless the LORD's counsel-that will stand. Proverbs 19:21
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7/2 Sat.
Last night was a good night. I only had to get up once to take pain medicine and even slept in until 8:00. So far I am only using ibprophen and anticipating a great day today. I am resting this morning hoping to make it to a dear friend's daughter's wedding at 2:00!
My devotional reading today encouraged me not to be anxious about "planning and evaluating" but rather practice trusting and thanking God continually. So that's my goal-to have a more trusting attitude for what God has already done and planned for me. Please pray for me, as I continue to heal, to wait faithfully for the upcoming
decisions and experiences of my follow up treatments. There are some things we do know! Aaron, our son in Washington will be here on Tuesday for a weeklong visit. Our kids are such good medicine to our souls, counting the hours till he gets here. Also I will have a check-up with the surgeon that day and then be scheduling an appointment with the oncologist after that.
If you have time please click on the Visitor Page and let David and I know you have found us here. Again, your encouraging comments, cards, emails, calls, and texts have been so thoughtful and motivate us to perservere, to see a much bigger picture. Thanks for prayerfully coming along beside us, being God's helpers in lifting us up.
Laura and David
"Humble yourselves, therefore, under God's mighty hand, that He may lift you up in due time. Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you." 1 Peter 5:6-7
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6/28 Tues
We are seeing more smiles on Laura's face and praise God she is not setting the alarm to take pain medication. Claire gave a week of love and is back in Chicago. Ben has been here both weekends since the surgery. The days are slowly getting easier with fewer bed/chair side needs. Thank you for your notes, emails, blog responses, texts, visits and food. Saturday night my mom shared several emails from friends from Contanta, Romania. We were so touched by their sharing of our pain and the intensity of their prayers. A close friend here in Fayetteville first got the call to pray for Laura from another friend living in the mountains of Honduras. Our nephew and neice in Texas, Sam and Alex, have written that they are praying for three things: peace in northern Africa, the spiritual revival in Europe, and the healing of Aunt Laura. Whew! God's Kingdom is large and active and is truly standing ready for prayer battle at a moment's notice. Thank you God for creating prayer.
We've been in communication with Dr. Bradford (oncology) and will be deciding on our next step probably within the week. We are feeling the anticipation build as we approach this next step, much like we felt approaching surgery. Purposely, prayerfully living one day at a time is the obedient way. We know this and we are trying. We have a family history of living life large and we plan on continuing this legacy for our kids and for anybody else that is watching!
Praying for each of you right now,
David and Laura
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6/26 Sun.
"...for the LORD gives rest to His loved ones." Psalm 127:2
The Lord has given me good rest because: 1-David is the best at perceiving what I need and rubbing out the knots in my sore muscles; 2- Claire and Ben have gotten here safely to see after me with help and conversations that keep me smiling; 3-Aaron and Dana had their best market so far in Poulsbo, WA and got to bake fresh homemade pizzas for friends in their new oven; 4-the bounty of tasty food that continues to be provided by dear friends which makes eating so enjoyable and easy; 5-this laptop allows me to sit in a comfortable chair and keep up with you; 6-knowing I have doctors finding the best treatment plan for me (I will let you know when that all gets decided); 7-I am experiencing less pain and having to take less pain medications so I am hopeful healing is happening; 8-of constant reassurring prayers from all who trust Jesus and His best for me.
Together we will be victorious! Much love, Laura and David
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6/24 Fri.
Hello dear ones, I feel the fog beginning to lift. It has been a week since my surgery and so glad to have that behind me. Being home has been good but I am trying not to be impatient with the pain and soreness I am still feeling. Your prayers,visits, notes and food have been so helpful and are reminders how Jesus works through you to impart His love and care to me.
Peace, Laura
Let us then approach the throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need. Hebrews 4: 16
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Laura's did make it to that wedding last Saturday, as well to church on Sunday, and to her doctor appointment on Tuesday. She's hoping to drive soon so watch out Fayetteville! Aaron's arrival on Tuesday night has really been a blessing. His sweet wife, Dana, is working hard on their farm in Washington so he can be here to help his mom. Aaron is such a positve person, just wonderful to have around. This week with Aaron is a gift from both of them.
We are still in a waiting mode on Laura's treatment plan, but know a bit more about the options. There are tests pending on the tumor tissue and her blood that may qualify her for a specific immunotherapy. If the tests results are qualifying then we will go to Moffitt Cancer Center in Tampa, Florida to meet with a melanoma specialist who would be directing her care. Our Dr. Bradford is pretty sure we would then be able to get these treatments here. However, if she did not qualify for this treatment then we would either begin a year long course of Interferon or "watch and wait" with quarterly PET/CT scans (next 9/2011). Certainly anything positive on future scans will dictate even more aggressive therapy. We should know something on her pending tests in the next two weeks so will know whether we are going to Tampa. Melanoma is more resposive to immunotherapies (vaccines, antibodies, white blood cell stimulators, interferon) as opposed to more conventional chemotherapy that you get with other cancers.
Please pray for Laura's continued healing, for her strength to drive and resume some of her routines. Please pray for the pending tests to qualify her for the Tampa treatment, as all feel that this is the most hopeful next step. Pray for us to thankfully continue living this wonderful life that God has given us "one day at a time". Just like Manna for the Israelites, He feeds us with all that we could possibly need for each single day's journey, always has and always will. Thank you for your attention to us, our story, our prayer requests. We know we don't deserve it, but like everything else good in our lives, count it as grace. His blessings and jewels on each of your heads,
David and Laura
There are many plans in a man's heart, nevertheless the LORD's counsel-that will stand. Proverbs 19:21
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7/2 Sat.
Last night was a good night. I only had to get up once to take pain medicine and even slept in until 8:00. So far I am only using ibprophen and anticipating a great day today. I am resting this morning hoping to make it to a dear friend's daughter's wedding at 2:00!
My devotional reading today encouraged me not to be anxious about "planning and evaluating" but rather practice trusting and thanking God continually. So that's my goal-to have a more trusting attitude for what God has already done and planned for me. Please pray for me, as I continue to heal, to wait faithfully for the upcoming
decisions and experiences of my follow up treatments. There are some things we do know! Aaron, our son in Washington will be here on Tuesday for a weeklong visit. Our kids are such good medicine to our souls, counting the hours till he gets here. Also I will have a check-up with the surgeon that day and then be scheduling an appointment with the oncologist after that.
If you have time please click on the Visitor Page and let David and I know you have found us here. Again, your encouraging comments, cards, emails, calls, and texts have been so thoughtful and motivate us to perservere, to see a much bigger picture. Thanks for prayerfully coming along beside us, being God's helpers in lifting us up.
Laura and David
"Humble yourselves, therefore, under God's mighty hand, that He may lift you up in due time. Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you." 1 Peter 5:6-7
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6/28 Tues
We are seeing more smiles on Laura's face and praise God she is not setting the alarm to take pain medication. Claire gave a week of love and is back in Chicago. Ben has been here both weekends since the surgery. The days are slowly getting easier with fewer bed/chair side needs. Thank you for your notes, emails, blog responses, texts, visits and food. Saturday night my mom shared several emails from friends from Contanta, Romania. We were so touched by their sharing of our pain and the intensity of their prayers. A close friend here in Fayetteville first got the call to pray for Laura from another friend living in the mountains of Honduras. Our nephew and neice in Texas, Sam and Alex, have written that they are praying for three things: peace in northern Africa, the spiritual revival in Europe, and the healing of Aunt Laura. Whew! God's Kingdom is large and active and is truly standing ready for prayer battle at a moment's notice. Thank you God for creating prayer.
We've been in communication with Dr. Bradford (oncology) and will be deciding on our next step probably within the week. We are feeling the anticipation build as we approach this next step, much like we felt approaching surgery. Purposely, prayerfully living one day at a time is the obedient way. We know this and we are trying. We have a family history of living life large and we plan on continuing this legacy for our kids and for anybody else that is watching!
Praying for each of you right now,
David and Laura
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6/26 Sun.
"...for the LORD gives rest to His loved ones." Psalm 127:2
The Lord has given me good rest because: 1-David is the best at perceiving what I need and rubbing out the knots in my sore muscles; 2- Claire and Ben have gotten here safely to see after me with help and conversations that keep me smiling; 3-Aaron and Dana had their best market so far in Poulsbo, WA and got to bake fresh homemade pizzas for friends in their new oven; 4-the bounty of tasty food that continues to be provided by dear friends which makes eating so enjoyable and easy; 5-this laptop allows me to sit in a comfortable chair and keep up with you; 6-knowing I have doctors finding the best treatment plan for me (I will let you know when that all gets decided); 7-I am experiencing less pain and having to take less pain medications so I am hopeful healing is happening; 8-of constant reassurring prayers from all who trust Jesus and His best for me.
Together we will be victorious! Much love, Laura and David
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6/24 Fri.
Hello dear ones, I feel the fog beginning to lift. It has been a week since my surgery and so glad to have that behind me. Being home has been good but I am trying not to be impatient with the pain and soreness I am still feeling. Your prayers,visits, notes and food have been so helpful and are reminders how Jesus works through you to impart His love and care to me.
Peace, Laura
Let us then approach the throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need. Hebrews 4: 16
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6/22 Wed am
LAURA IS HOME! Good Dr. Counce took the chest tube, then in a few hours we were out of there. Ironically, there was a little sadness in leaving our good nurses and aides. Their compassion and gentle ways were such a blessing. It's amazing how powerful kindness is when displayed toward the vulnerable and wounded (remember the old story of the mouse removing the thorn from the lion's paw?). Anyway, Laura slept in her own bed last night. We're setting the oven timer to remind us to stay on schedule for the pain med, don't want her to get behind. So far so good. She's proud to be sporting her new LIVESTRONG bracelet.
Dr. Counce (surgeon) called Dr. Bradford (oncologist, on vacation) yesterday with a report on Laura. Dr. Bradford stated and has since texted us that he has a plan of action for Laura which we will discuss next week probably. We are refraining from over exposing ourselves to the 1000s of pages online that pertain to her disease, wanted to get his direction first.
Julie Fish has organized some meals for us and we are fixed up for the next 10 days, thanks to Julie and all of her helpers. We feel the love. Again thank you for the visits, notes, cards, gifts, texts, emails and most of all prayers. Those of you who came to her door and didn't get to see her get extra jewels in your crown. We have a muslim friend who has called Laura every single day since this started, to encourage her and to remind her of her prayers for her. We know of prayer warriors that have been activated in Kuwait, Kauai, SE Asia, China, and Mali. We are humbled and admit to not deserving this attention (it's embarressing to Laura), however, want to take the chance to deflect the focus upon Someone Who does deserve it. Thank You.
Blessings on all your heads,
David and Laura
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Family and Friends, 6/21 Tues pm
Laura has learned many things these last few days, namely that a chest tube is a very serious "thorn in the flesh" and that morphine is a beautiful gift of God. She is healing thanks to your prayers and no longer has the chest
tube as of this afternoon. Home is a day or two away!
Ben passed the baton to Claire on Sunday. The kids have been good medicine to both of us. The intensity of your prayers, concern, and encouragement has lifted our heads. The peace of God's Word is
taking root in our hearts.
Thanks for finding us here on this blog. We will continue with almost daily updates for a while. We would tell you if we knew what's next, but
we don't. What's important to us is that God knows and that's enough. He is a God of promise and of hope.
Bless you as you bless us,
David and Laura
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Sunday, June 19th
Dear Friends,
Laura is making progress today, thanks to God's grace. We have learned that 3 of the lung nodules were positive for melanoma. Now we
know and are confident of a wise next recommendation from our doctors. Thanks for your ongoing prayers and encouragement. We are now praying that God will
bless you as you are blessing us. David
PS: Please keep our grown children - Aaron (& wife Dana), Ben and Claire in your prayers as they continue in this intense trial and lean on Jesus to be their Strength. Thank you.
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6/17 Fri. pm
Dear Friends,
Laura has done well through her surgery and is now resting in her room. We're waiting until tomorrow for the tissue diagnosis, so please
keep praying. Thanks! David
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Wed pm
Friends and Family,
The adventure is getting very adventuresome. Laura's infection tests were all negative and now it is necessary to actually look at those lesions to
know what to do next. She is scheduled for surgery at WRMC on Friday (6/17), having an open chest procedure to remove them (2). We will know
the pathology on these lesions on Friday. As we understand she will be in the hospital 4 or more days requiring a chest tube. Driving and lifting
will be prohibited for 2 weeks or more. We had planned Camp Barnabas this next week so that is obviously off our calendar. I had planned some days
off for camp which will make my being there easier without having to move many patients.
We are not afraid, just a bit jittery with it all. I'm hugging her about every 5 minutes. Laura hates the public spotlight and I think that
is the hardest thing for her right now. You are on this list because we love you and we know you love us. We know you are praying now and will be
wrestling in prayer for Laura on Friday. God is already wherever any of us are going. He can see it all and is preparing us (his kids) for whatever,
whenever. Pray for our A, B, C, D, that they be strong, full of faith. By the way, we have a lot of confidence in our doctors (Bradford and Counce) and
would appreciate your prayers for them too. The joy of the Lord is our strength.
love, David and Laura
I know the LORD is always with me. I will not be shaken, for He is right beside me. No wonder my heart is filled with joy, and my mouth shouts His praises! My body rests in safety. Psalm 16:8-9
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6/6/11 9pm Mon.
Dr. Bradford called tonight to tell me there is some questionable spots from my annual PET scan. David and I will meet with him tomorrow, Tuesday.
at 2pm. Together we will decide to watch or to do further test to rule out any questions this has caused. Please pray for peace and a clear plan how
to proceed. I will let you know as soon as I know something.
This is not the first time this has happened over the 14 years I have been coping with cancer so I pray it is another false positive.
Again David and I covet your prayers. Love, Lauraj
LAURA IS HOME! Good Dr. Counce took the chest tube, then in a few hours we were out of there. Ironically, there was a little sadness in leaving our good nurses and aides. Their compassion and gentle ways were such a blessing. It's amazing how powerful kindness is when displayed toward the vulnerable and wounded (remember the old story of the mouse removing the thorn from the lion's paw?). Anyway, Laura slept in her own bed last night. We're setting the oven timer to remind us to stay on schedule for the pain med, don't want her to get behind. So far so good. She's proud to be sporting her new LIVESTRONG bracelet.
Dr. Counce (surgeon) called Dr. Bradford (oncologist, on vacation) yesterday with a report on Laura. Dr. Bradford stated and has since texted us that he has a plan of action for Laura which we will discuss next week probably. We are refraining from over exposing ourselves to the 1000s of pages online that pertain to her disease, wanted to get his direction first.
Julie Fish has organized some meals for us and we are fixed up for the next 10 days, thanks to Julie and all of her helpers. We feel the love. Again thank you for the visits, notes, cards, gifts, texts, emails and most of all prayers. Those of you who came to her door and didn't get to see her get extra jewels in your crown. We have a muslim friend who has called Laura every single day since this started, to encourage her and to remind her of her prayers for her. We know of prayer warriors that have been activated in Kuwait, Kauai, SE Asia, China, and Mali. We are humbled and admit to not deserving this attention (it's embarressing to Laura), however, want to take the chance to deflect the focus upon Someone Who does deserve it. Thank You.
Blessings on all your heads,
David and Laura
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Family and Friends, 6/21 Tues pm
Laura has learned many things these last few days, namely that a chest tube is a very serious "thorn in the flesh" and that morphine is a beautiful gift of God. She is healing thanks to your prayers and no longer has the chest
tube as of this afternoon. Home is a day or two away!
Ben passed the baton to Claire on Sunday. The kids have been good medicine to both of us. The intensity of your prayers, concern, and encouragement has lifted our heads. The peace of God's Word is
taking root in our hearts.
Thanks for finding us here on this blog. We will continue with almost daily updates for a while. We would tell you if we knew what's next, but
we don't. What's important to us is that God knows and that's enough. He is a God of promise and of hope.
Bless you as you bless us,
David and Laura
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Sunday, June 19th
Dear Friends,
Laura is making progress today, thanks to God's grace. We have learned that 3 of the lung nodules were positive for melanoma. Now we
know and are confident of a wise next recommendation from our doctors. Thanks for your ongoing prayers and encouragement. We are now praying that God will
bless you as you are blessing us. David
PS: Please keep our grown children - Aaron (& wife Dana), Ben and Claire in your prayers as they continue in this intense trial and lean on Jesus to be their Strength. Thank you.
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6/17 Fri. pm
Dear Friends,
Laura has done well through her surgery and is now resting in her room. We're waiting until tomorrow for the tissue diagnosis, so please
keep praying. Thanks! David
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Wed pm
Friends and Family,
The adventure is getting very adventuresome. Laura's infection tests were all negative and now it is necessary to actually look at those lesions to
know what to do next. She is scheduled for surgery at WRMC on Friday (6/17), having an open chest procedure to remove them (2). We will know
the pathology on these lesions on Friday. As we understand she will be in the hospital 4 or more days requiring a chest tube. Driving and lifting
will be prohibited for 2 weeks or more. We had planned Camp Barnabas this next week so that is obviously off our calendar. I had planned some days
off for camp which will make my being there easier without having to move many patients.
We are not afraid, just a bit jittery with it all. I'm hugging her about every 5 minutes. Laura hates the public spotlight and I think that
is the hardest thing for her right now. You are on this list because we love you and we know you love us. We know you are praying now and will be
wrestling in prayer for Laura on Friday. God is already wherever any of us are going. He can see it all and is preparing us (his kids) for whatever,
whenever. Pray for our A, B, C, D, that they be strong, full of faith. By the way, we have a lot of confidence in our doctors (Bradford and Counce) and
would appreciate your prayers for them too. The joy of the Lord is our strength.
love, David and Laura
I know the LORD is always with me. I will not be shaken, for He is right beside me. No wonder my heart is filled with joy, and my mouth shouts His praises! My body rests in safety. Psalm 16:8-9
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6/6/11 9pm Mon.
Dr. Bradford called tonight to tell me there is some questionable spots from my annual PET scan. David and I will meet with him tomorrow, Tuesday.
at 2pm. Together we will decide to watch or to do further test to rule out any questions this has caused. Please pray for peace and a clear plan how
to proceed. I will let you know as soon as I know something.
This is not the first time this has happened over the 14 years I have been coping with cancer so I pray it is another false positive.
Again David and I covet your prayers. Love, Lauraj